How we see things depend on the attitude that we are having. If we feel
good, positive and happy, all the things we see are much better.
If we are angry, we
will see others are also angry and not nice. And when we communicate,
our tone will also be angrier. The one receiving the angry words will
also start to be angry. This will in turn make the matters worse. We can
relate this when we realize that a big argument broke out was mainly
due to small matter.
One good example is during the rush hour
traffic jam. If our mood is not good, the travel can be a very bad
experience. When we were angry over something, it will transform into
the way we drive. We tend to be inpatient, speed and brake immediately.
At the same time scolding the other drivers being slow and cutting into
our lane.
If we are happy and calm, the situation is different. We are more understanding of the jam and be patient with other drivers.
Another
example is during a minor car accident. The damage can be small, but
the arguments over it can be very fierce and very vulgar.
So, try your best to always wear the best attitude spectacle to see the world.
Who knows, I may be the slow driver in front of you.
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